How I Met My Wifey 1x07- Nothing Good Happens After 2 A.M.

so where were we? oh right.. so basically that's how my story went down with that girl. In the end it was never meant to be. I lost a good friend (the girl), lost a friend (the bloke/3rd wheel guy) And for the longest time I had the hardest time accepting that loss. And in that time frame I hate/despised/detested them. And now after a year I find myself rooting for them. I really think they were meant to be together. Even though I am still curious as to what exactly happened and what went down with our relationship; I wouldn't mind if I never find out. And with that in mind the good old saying of "time heals everything" is quite true. I was just too close to the puzzle to see the picture that was forming.

And that brings me to the present... recently I became friends with an old friend in my college ministry. In a weird way whenever I did something with that ministry, she seemed to be close by. For example spring retreat, she was in my group twice. For missions, we went to the same place twice; thailand and beijing. And throughout most of my career in KCCC, I never really made the effort in getting to know her. I guess the reason was because I was into that girl before. So recently I decided to add her on facebook; I was lounging around facebook and I saw that "you may know this person" tool and there she was. I was bored so I decided to add her.

Much to my delight, she remembered me and she clearly remembered my testimony years ago back in my first spring retreat.. and asked a question that I put aside last year, and that's where my life is now... I can't help but think how my life would have turned out if I had chosen that path. And honestly her response on facebook has got me thinking..

Did I make the right decision? Is my life where it should be? Is this my destined path?

So many questions have risen since her response... and honestly I'm confused... a bit nostalgic, and a bit regretful... but at the same time I do remember why I left that ministry...

and on that bombshell... we'll see how this shapes out...