How I Met My Wifey 1x06- Unlucky Dime

So now I will continue on with the 2 years part...

Well after talking to her for about 10 mins, she left to go spend time with her family and I went off to Thailand for my missions. Thailand was alrite, didn't really enjoy it. I just really wanted to go home. So I spent a total of 5 weeks away from the states and now was on my way back to Los Angeles. I spent a week at LA to go to a debriefing. And there it she was, after 6 long weeks of not seeing each other I saw her. I was a pretty happy to see her, and she too was happy. But unfortunately we didn't have time to talk, we both had to spend times with our teams debriefing and spending one last time together.

I ended up working on a project for our team the whole night. The next day arrived and everybody was going to the park. But unfortunately she couldn't, she was going shopping with her friends or family. I was pretty bummed out about it and from there on everything was a blur.

Now the new semester began and I was appointed daepyo of San Jose KCCC. And our journey starts off with a retreat. When I first saw her, I decided to go with the "oh I didn't know you were there" approach. To much of my surprise she did the same thing. I knew she knew that I was there. Weirdly enough we both didn't show our excitement in seeing each other. A hours pass by and everybody is sleeping throughout the retreat site. Being the type of person that doesn't like to take random naps, I went around and scouted the area. Along my journey I found that she was alone playing the guitar. Seeing this as an outstanding opportunity I sat next to her and we talked for a good 20-30 mins. The retreat came and went but something was weird, I felt a little distant from her.

For about a good two months we just had a few chats here and there, but never really hit it off like we did a year ago. I knew something was wrong and I had to fix it. And just as always, an opportunity came up. One of my staff was getting married. I was suiting up and she was dressing up. I thought, wow this is perfect. Unfortunately when I saw her, she ignored me. But later on after the reception, we went to this yogurt place and we sat next to each other and had a blast. Now I thought this was the game saver, it felt like we hit it off again.

For most of the year it was the same, but I decided to be more blunt in my actions. I wanted her to full out know that I liked her. And for the most part she seemed to accept my actions. But this is where that bloke that I mentioned before (the one that was the third wheel in the korea trip) came into the picture. I noticed that she really started opening up to him and that she was in the middle of two guys. I was naturally pist cause this guy was here to cock block me. As the year progressed those two got closer, and me and her stayed the same. Now the end of the year came and I knew that she was starting to like him, but I thought if I had any chance of a rebound it would be in the form of a friend. So me, her and that bloke all went to missions and as usual me and her chatted a lot. We went to this huge conference in Korea, and there I made an statement to God. I told him "God if this is meant to be then our relationship will get better, if not then I guess it was never meant to be." So back to the conference. Well this was a huge huge conference so I rarely saw her there.

The conference passed and all of us went off to our mission field. I didn't get to see her for three weeks. But when I did see her she was very very friendly. She pushed me, and was really happy to see me. I thought okay, God wants this to happen. We didn't get the chance to hang out in Korea, then unfortunately it was my time to go back home.

Now this is the "1 year ago" part. Now I haven't seen her for a good month and the ministry was set to meet at the prayer night thing. But when I saw her, she completely ignored me, gave me the cold shoulder. It was if I had done something so hurtful to her that she rejected me as a friend. A few weeks later after doing some investigative work, I figured out that the bloke (3rd wheel dude) and her liked each other. And slowly but surely I was becoming the 3rd wheel. As the year progressed everything just went down hill. Eventually at the end of the year I took the hint and moved on. I never found out why she suddenly turned the cold shoulder on me, but I guessed that this bloke told her to do that since they were into each other.

If I ever do get the chance to find out what happened, I think I would definitely want to hear it. Now that concludes this post. I talked about 3 years ago, 2 years ago, and a year ago. Next I will be talking about the present. Something interesting just happened.

Peace out Hombres!